Friendship versus Relationship!!

Life is Always Unpredictable!

What will happen when your friend wishes to start a relationship as a couple with you? Will you be nervous? 

When the status was just a friend, you might share everything with him/her and without any hesitation. No reason to hide because you know that it won’t hurt and is harmless, your friend will support you and know what you are doing, even he/she don’t, you wouldn’t blame them for not able to understand your thought.

When the status changed, you tend to keep part of the fact from him/her, worrying that what you’ve done and said might make him/her thought that you are awful and being unreasonable. When he/she misunderstands you, you will get angry because you believe that he/she should be the person that understands you the most.

So, conclusion was being a friend is always better then be a partner. When someone only a friend to you, your have almost no expectation towards he/she and wouldn’t think that whatever he/she did is a must. But when become your partner, no matter what he/she did was become part of the responsibility for being a partner. Expectation is there and always feels that you deserved more than that.

He/she buy you a meal and medicine when you are sick, you will be touched and cry for his/her kindness and thanks god for sending you an angel. This will ONLY happened when you two are still friend.

He/she buy you a meal with the medicine when you are sick, you will be scolded him/her for being so slow and asked him/her buy you a sweet to take with the medicine. You will think this is part of his/her duty and without a single word of thank you or appreciate it.

This is what happened in our real life study.  People will not appreciate with what they have now and when they lose it they will start to regret.

Friendship and relationship are the two subjects that we always study is our life and no one can be escape from; well, is depending on how to give and take. Sometimes when friend turn to be partner, it will be great as there is basic understanding among them. However, if ended up with break off you will lose a friend and you might also gain a good friend.

When you are in the situation, you might not see the truth, the truth always hiding and pull yourself away from it, you will realied what want might not be what you are looking for.