Friendship~~

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Friendship!

What a nice word when think off it. Has anyone been asking yourself what is friendship and how it should be?

I had a small discussion with a friend about what is the meaning of friendship. A friend should be having the specific characteristic, to me, at least. A friend is it a closed friend or a new friend it will be still consider a friend and as long as the word exist. We have all the right to maintain a friendship.

We did not judge friend by the occupation, rank, family status or so. We judge friend by heart, by how they treat us, how comfortable are you with the person.

Just imagine how far we go to the extent of wearing a mask in a daily life. From the first moment we opened up our eyes, we start masking ourselves, make up, smile, and etc be it we happy or not. Put on a mask during work, think twice or even three times before we speak up something in front of a strangers, colleague, business partner and bosses. This is life and nothing to complaint about.

So, now tell me what is FRIEND, if being with friend, you still have to put on a mask, think twice before you speak up? So, they aren’t your friend, it was just a business partner and maybe someone that can help you in your life in any sense.

A friend, to me; should be understandable; we know each other’s weaknesses, we do not wish to hurt them however, sometimes, if you as a friend did not speak up the truth, your friend will never know. So that’s a say always that thank to those people who criticize you in a good way, they want you to improve. Stay away from those praise you when you did something wrong, they wanted to overtake you. A friend should be no hidden face, true us, true me and can talk freely by knowing a friend will accommodate and compromise.

Friendship is Forever and we should always appreciate that.

But well, people usually misunderstand the meaning of a friend. A friend shouldnt be the one who ONLY share your sadness, friend should always happy for your happiness and provide helpful advice when needed.

Human naturally will only share te sadness with friend as friend is the only person they can found when they are sad. Well, this is cruel but it is a ugly fact.

Pals, let us be a true friend and care always for your friends.