Bad Habits!

Life is Always Unpredictable!

Life is about habit, I’m reading a book by the name "Why others can overcome the bad habits and be a successful one"; is a good book though, no doubt.

This book emphasized on few bad habits:-

1. Jealous

2. Selfish

3. Petty

4. Lazy

5. Complaint

Those who had overcome these bad habits had turn into motivation and move forward. Those who could not overcome will drown together with it.

Jealous – Generally, what people will see is the status and power that someone has but forgotten what has he/she gave up or walk though. Why can’t we turn the jealousy to a power of envy and work towards the direction and make it a role model.

Selfish – Let others do the ‘dirty’ / ‘though’ work. Is a ME, which is the central of the mind, MYSELF is important while other can be ignored? Why can’t we share the workload and enjoy the fruits together?

Petty – teasing others is fine, being teased is offended. What a joke, same word(s) can be say to others but not you. Why can’t we take tease as a joke instead?

Laziness – The common competitor of all. We shall wait, but till when?

Complaining – Please differentiate complaint and grumbling. But well, both irritate others.

All these bad habits are highly related to self confidence and hard work. We can allow others (which we do not know them) to be our superior but we do not allow our friend who in fact is more capable but you do not agree to be our superior. These called common workplace politic.

We should take them as a role model rather than enemy, don’t we? But well, I guess many people might not agree as just like it is not easy to tackle the bad habits.

Try not to complaint and compare but work on it. If he/she can be promoted, they must have something that we can learn from. All these bad habits will not helped you to move forward but will pull you back.

Let's be someone who can be a role model of others and by reaching the stage, you will realise what have you done is worthy. Let's others jealous about our status, than we does.

P/S: increase self- confidence is the key to move forward.