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Life is Always Unpredictable!

Nows day, the social media is one of the strongest way to connect people. In the sense its also disconnect people.

I still remember those day where i was sending SMS for b'day, new year and etc. Now, we just simple type in the social media site; without more effort as the b'day was reminded by the site not by the heart.

Not sure if anyone ever tried to scroll down the friend list and suddenly realize that none of them you would want to share your joy, your pain. So, what we do, we share the status. By hoping many of friends will drop by and 'Like', or 'Comment'. How many of your friend will give you a call or send you an SMS.

Is this a good sign? Honestly, i have no idea though. Maybe it was good, you can share your thought within a click; doesn't matter who it will reach. As long as someone can see it.

If you ask me, i would said no harm. I have friend complaint about my status update which did not disclose any information, as i would just type "Finally..." or maybe "It's time..." so they were clueless about what i was trying to tell. But deep down in my heart, i know those friend who really knows me, care about me; they knew what it was all about and they know what message that i wanted to send across.

So, now it become a tools for me to spread my latest news to my close friend, family, although it appeared in my friend's list of 400. It may only reach 10. Pathetic? Maybe. One day, if you try to perform a data clean, remove those who are not really friend, they are maybe a passerby, ex-college mate, ex-colleague, ex-friend, ex-mate, ex-bf, ex.... So what about current, existing?

My former manager used to comment that i am too cool-acted in the office. Seldom socialize with others, which i admit. After so many years of working, i somehow acknowledge that a colleague status is pretty hard to change to friend. A colleague, be it any direct or indirect competition, it will turns ugly. i'm trying to avoid badly.

I urgently wanted to explore what is the true meaning of 'grown up', how to consider mature.
Grown up: Lesser Friend (Real Friend), more liability, more responsibility, typically higher income, lesser saving.
Mature: Handle the situation more rational, take up the responsibility.

I wish my life can have lesser worry, more fun. Unfortunately this is not always the case, we often dont get what we want. But well, we have to Live Life Live.